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Lovers fight - only lovers can fight
Lovers fight - only lovers can fight;
they depend on fighting.
And they know that nothing is wrong, because when they fight
they create a situation to move deeper into love.
It is a rhythm.
If you have been a lover, which is a rare thing,
you know that just before making love,
if you have been fighting and angry
and trying to kill each other,
and then you make love, then the orgasm has a high peak
such as can never be attained ordinarily.
Because when energies move farther away-
hate means energy is moving farther away -
there comes a point
when you have moved as far from each other
as you were before you fell in love.
Just the same point has come again.
You are two individuals, completely independent,
all communication has dropped.
You are again strangers, not knowing who the other is.
This was the situation when you fell in love.
If you don't escape, you will fall in love again -
the whole romance, a new honeymoon.
And if you cannot get the honeymoon again and again,
love will become stale.
It will be just a dead thing.
You will have to carry it like a burden.
they depend on fighting.
And they know that nothing is wrong, because when they fight
they create a situation to move deeper into love.
It is a rhythm.
If you have been a lover, which is a rare thing,
you know that just before making love,
if you have been fighting and angry
and trying to kill each other,
and then you make love, then the orgasm has a high peak
such as can never be attained ordinarily.
Because when energies move farther away-
hate means energy is moving farther away -
there comes a point
when you have moved as far from each other
as you were before you fell in love.
Just the same point has come again.
You are two individuals, completely independent,
all communication has dropped.
You are again strangers, not knowing who the other is.
This was the situation when you fell in love.
If you don't escape, you will fall in love again -
the whole romance, a new honeymoon.
And if you cannot get the honeymoon again and again,
love will become stale.
It will be just a dead thing.
You will have to carry it like a burden.
That photo you posted is from the movie “House of Flying Daggers”…It is one of my favourite movie and Ihave seen it almost 10 times..their fight and deception were of such magnificence, the same sides of a beautiful coin. They had to die many times to realized blissful love…you sid it beautifully…
Oh, Rory! I enjoyed this movie also! Very much so!
Yes, a lover is someone who takes you through all the depths into the heights. A lover is unique, rare. They have a special way of contacting, communicating, communing with you. A sensitive lover who lives here and now in an intimate loving even transcendental way with you. Over and over flowing between embracing all of life and also rejecting it…play mates, prayer mates…love is play, a play of the heart..
..it is the play to bring lovers to realization, joyous integration!
Thank you so much Rory!
with love,
Cheyenne
LOVER's know the rules of the game…
that they can bend and mend…
they know how to sing and scream at each other; what a wonderful game…
Lover's are not fighting with each other… but finding their God in each other…
a True lover thinks of GOd the instant the worldly lover breaks up…
that's a sign of true love…
Sacrifice is the key to love… is the essence of all possibility… and the essence of all innocence…
Love thrives on innocence…
Love thrives on the truth…
Extremism is the lack of love.. or not seeing it in other beings…
it;s the lack of seeing potential in another… a judgment… that so and so; has no right to love God.. and hence should be blown up…
that is wrong !!!
there's no where else these souls go… except in a hell lacking even a strand of love..
My mother says.. the souls inside mountains are lonely souls who have done evil… and who are sentenced for thousands of years of livelihood.. with not a shrub growing on it… loving it…
i heard it in a science channel.. that mountains are like coiled springs that HOLD the earth calm.. and steady… they take the folding of the earth crust as SHOCK absorbers.. coz the earth's crust is moving all the time… these mountains act like pegs on a clothing line.. having to take that jolt and keep it steady and calm…
It;s interesting… How karma comes around…
So please fight with delight… and don;t ever hate a worldly lover breakup… just go back to loving God… and everything will be alright… :-)
Thankyou as always Spiritual Mummy !!!!
Oh and your status today… truely spectacular.. !!! You said:
I don;t know if this song makes sense here.. but it came to me as i was reading your status; our status…
Sandra - Such a shame
Such a shame to believe in escape
A life on every face
And that's a change, till
I'm finally left with an
eight
Tell me to react, I just stare
Maybe I don't know if I should change
A feeling that we share…
It's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me with rage, it's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me in haste, it's a shame
This eagerness to change
It's a shame…
The dice decide my fate
and that's a shame
In these trembling hands my faith
Tell me to react, I don't care
Maybe it's unkind if I should change
A feeling that we share…
It's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me with rage, it's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me in haste, it's a shame
This eagerness to change
Such a shame…
Tell me to react, I don't care
Maybe it's unkind, I should change
A feeling that we share…
It's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me with rage, it's a shame
(Such a shame)
Number me in haste, it's a shame
This eagerness to change…
Such a shame..
:-)
Thank you, Janak! So beautiful!
yes…a lover can take you to cosmic consciousness, quicker than another other way I know. Love is the highest technique!…
to sail and soar high..above and beyond the conditioning that inhibits emotional life.
truth
freedom
ecstasy
bliss
you come out of your miserable ego, separate and caged!
Oh, the madness!
I think I understand your words, Janak…
don't condemn the mud because the lotus is hidden in the mud…use the mud to produce the lotus.
and become innocent, yes!
allowing each other to be totally uncontrolled. Forget civilization completely, as if it never existed..be just like innocent animals and act out your being totally. You will lose your mind (big smile!)..the energy can take hold of you and posses you..and in these moments you know God.
Your relationship becomes a celebration..
But do not get hooked on the peaks..because then you will miss the valley! In the valley, I think, Janak is where god can fill you totally. You kiss him at the peak, he enters you in the valley.
Then your walking becomes communion, your sitting becomes communion…
Actually, Love has nothing to do with somebody else, it is your very state of being. A person becomes mature the moment they start loving rather than needing love.
And yes…love is a sacrifice! You have to sacrifice your ego, your privacy, your secrets. You have to pass through a fire..there is pain, growth, birth. Yes..love is a sacrifice.
what a shame (smile)..if you throw it away!)
big hug, Janak!…you are a beautiful lover!
with love,
Cheyenne
Oh my, Cheyenne. Sweet confirmation. You say exactly what I already have honed down to an art. lol. Its absolutely true but this is deep stuff….its the art of warring with love…….otherwise, disaster could result…
And sigh, now I make my fictional characters fight. Ah, sweet fight. I live for those.
Well, anyway, excuse my blabber. Just wanted to say I know exactly what you mean and keep on saying all these beautiful stuff.
Also, I never saw “House of Flying Daggers” but now I am intrigued….I shall definitely look it up next time I am at the movie store.
Hugs for all.
Love u guys.
Hey, Goddess…you absolutely have to take a peek at this movie. I was so taken by it and to realized the many stages of death and rebirth. It is great theme Chey conveys on lover's fight..
Amy, hi!
you have it honed down!…(laughing!). Good for you!
Opposites attract! The more different from each other, the more the attraction, the beauty, the charm…..
….but therein lies the whole problem.
When lovers come close, they want to merge..but the whole attraction depends on opposites! And the harmony depends on dissolving the opposites.
This causes great trouble, anguish!
My husband will say to me, “I cannot stand you!”…I say, “Oh, yes, (big smile!)..well, I cannot stand you either! It is called love. You might as well get used to it!” And we laugh with each other!
Only when we are sitting silently together, does the harmony come!…then he says something and messes it up (laughing!). I say, 'Uh!..we were doing just fine, till you went and said something!!!'
My husband and I have lived as the characters in this movie…one always outdoing the other..our love affair has been nothing but a challenge…the love has not been exactly for each other, but for the challenge!…and in both of our defeats, we began to love each other. it has been a long long dance of opposition!
If you don't have trouble, you do not have love!
but love cannot be looked at as a conflict. It is not. It is a great opportunity to grow! To resolves opposites into one. If your hate can become love…you have truly grown! If your anger can become compassion..when tension becomes relaxation!
thank you dearly, Amy! Oh, your characters are so lucky!….
with love!
Cheyenne